Chores are not only a great way for kids to help around the house, but they also teach responsibility. Deciding what chores are right for your child can be tough so here are some ideas to help you get them started:
A lot of parents are on the fence about giving young kids chores around the house. Sometimes parents just feel guilty about putting them to work when childhood is so short. The problem is that we see it as we’re putting them to work, implying that it’s something forced upon the child. Changing the mindset can be easy when you reason that chores, if doled out correctly can be enriching for a child. Not only do they making the transition from babyhood to teenager and then adulthood smoother in terms of learning how to contribute to society, but also create a stronger bond between child and parent when they feel as though they are contributing to the well-being of the family.
When deciding what chores the child will be able to do, it’s a good start to consider age. Here are some ideas based off age group.
Age 2-3
- Pick up and put away toys
- Take dirty clothes to laundry basket
- Help you make the bed
- Dust
- Wipe spills and the front of appliances (fridge, oven, etc.)
Age 4-5 add to previous chores:
- Bring in groceries
- Sort laundry colors
- Sweep with a small broom
- Help prepare meals
- Feed and give water to pets
Age 6-7 add to previous chores:
- Set and clear the table
- Vacuum
- Fold Laundry
- Empty trash cans
- Clean mirrors
Age 8-9 add to previous chores:
- Wash dishes
- Take garbage to the curb
- Walk dog
- Rake leaves and pull weeds
- Mop
Age 10-12 add to previous chores:
- Dress themselves
- Mow lawn with supervision
- Prepare simple meals
- Wash car
- Help younger siblings
Age 13 and older add to previous chores:
- Clean the bathroom
- Iron clothes
- Answer calls
- Do laundry
- Prepare own lunches
As always, parents are the expert on their child. Some items on the list may be too difficult for a child in that age group or they may be able to accomplish items from older age groups. The best thing to do is monitor/ help your child with new tasks until you are confident they can manage them alone. Your child may grumble at first but later they will thank you for teaching them responsibility and life skills early on.
